We all want to look our best and dress to impress that special someone in our lives, but even if our wardrobe is at the height of fashion, there are 5 simple outfits our guys secretly hope we will wear. Can you guess what they are?

• Jeans and a Tanktop: Simple, right? Well, most guys think this is super sexy -- casual and looking beautiful without a lot of work.

• The Librarian Look: Nothing says naughty like a form fitting pencil skirt and a tucked in blouse. Throw your hair in a bun and don your reading glasses for the full effect!

• Strapless Cocktail Dress: Don't go with trends -- guys like classic elegant when you are getting dressed to kill.

• A Fitted Sports Jersey Representing His Favorite Team: If he's a sports nut this is a must, and if you don't have a fitted shirt of your own, borrow his oversized jersey and knot it in the back for a sexy, midriff revealing look.

Tight Yoga Pants: A win for us -- these are super comfortable!

Breaking up is never easy, especially when you are the one doing the dumping. Being the dumper can make you feel pretty bad about yourself, even if your reasons for wanting out of the relationship are valid. If you are planning on ending a relationship, here's how to keep your morals intact, and break up like a grownup:

• Do it face to face: Breaking someone's heart is unpleasant, but avoiding them and taking the coward's way out is just plain disrespectful. You will help your ex by giving them some sort of closure, and you won't look like a jerk in the process.

• If you can't do it face to face, use the phone: If your soon-to-be ex is away for an extended period of time, and you can't wait until they get back -- use the phone. DO NOT BREAK UP VIA EMAIL OR TEXT! Dialogue is important, and the only fair way to resolve the situation.

• Give concrete reasons: If you have feelings for another person -- tell them; if you feel that the relationship is stagnant and you want to move on -- tell them. Whatever the reason -- tell them. Trying to be gentle and beating around the bush gives them a false sense of hope. Saying, "It's me not you," or "I just need to figure things out in my life right now" -- these are lame and don't afford the dumpee closure.

• Leave them alone after you have said your peace: Even if you are going to try to remain friends, give them space to get over you. Don't contact them first -- let them reach out to you.

Be OK with them hating you for a while: C'mon, you've been dumped before, these feelings are only natural. Give them their space to get over you and realize you are both better off.

Does anyone actually like going on first dates?

It's like going into the great unknown. You have no idea what to expect. You're nervous about what she's going to be like. You're nervous about how you're going look. You're nervous about how to end the night. There's just so much to stress about because so many things could go wrong.

But to make things a little easier for you, there are some things that you don't have to think too hard about -- and those are the automatic first-date deal-breakers. These are the things to look for that will tell you whether this has a chance of going anywhere:

• Bad breath

• She's boring as hell

• She talks way too much and doesn't let you get a word in

• There's something very unsexy about her -- like she has a firm handshake or an ear-wrenching voice

• She's mean to the waitress

• She reveals information about herself that tells you she won't be a good girlfriend

She reveals a little too much about herself, like she's into some weird stuff or is insanely obsessive-compulsive

If you have been exclusively dating the same guy for a while, it's only natural for your mind to start conjuring images of your dream wedding, and what your future children will look like.

Hopefully, you are both on the same page, but if he isn't ever going to pop the question -- and that's a deal breaker for you -- it's important to find out before too much time passes.

Here are 5 surefire signs that he isn't the marrying kind:

• He Comes Right Out And Says So: This is an important conversation that needs to be had in any long-term relationship. If he says he never wants to get married you need to take him at his word and not hope that he secretly changes his mind one day. It's not fair for either of you.

• He Always Chooses To Hang With His Guy Friends Over You: It's perfectly natural to spend time apart with friends, but if you two have plans and he breaks them to watch the game with the guys time and time again with very little notice, it's pretty obvious the relationship isn't that important to him.

• He's a Work-A-Holic: If he puts his job before you than his job is most definitely a priority over marriage. So even if this guy would tie the knot -- would you want to play second fiddle to his work?

• He's Been Married Before and It Ended Badly: An ugly divorce can turn even the most romantic person away from the idea of marriage.